So we had a rough week last week around here but I am happy to say that things are a million times better because on Tuesday, January 29, I woke up and did the "tooth check" on Tula and sure enough, her two bottom teeth had finally cut through. The day she turned 7 months old! Nice birthday gift for her and myself as it pretty much put an end to a really bad week for us. So here is the story of what happened. I know I posted a little about this but I will just take it from the top so everyone gets the full story and I have it for my journaling purposes.
Last Monday night Tula broke out in a fever of about 102. She had never, ever had a fever before. My first initial thought was "This is teething." I am learning to trust that first initial Mommy feeling more and more everyday. I gave her some Motrin (for the first time ever) to help break the fever and we put her in a lukewarm bath. It broke, but was back 2 hours later so we did the bath again. It broke, but came back. The Motrin every 4 hours seemed to help with the pain but the fever stayed. It got a little bit better the next morning and throughout the day but by evening she was back to a high temp and super cranky, I think just generlly feeling crappy, poor girl. I decided Tues night after a long night of waking and restlessness (more on John and My part than hers) that I would take her to a clinic on Wednesday just to get everything checked out and for them to tell me she was fine as I suspected and that it was "just teething". No such luck. I ended up with a Nurse Practitioner who basically had a stick up her butt because I don't bring Tula for "well-baby" checkups. She has never really seen a Doctor, and for good reason. She has been perfectly healthy her whole entire life, Thank God. We have been so blessed. Anyways, the nurse seemed annoyed with me from the get-go, and although I couldn't care less I still needed to get "the word" form her. Well, she took a half a second look in Tula's ear and looked at me and said (in a kind of nasty tone) "Mom...this girl has an ear infection." I was shocked. I asked her if she was sure and she said absolutely. I informed her that Tula had not once grabbed at her ears and that I really thought it ws teething. She said that not all babies with ear infections grab at their ears and this was definately not teething. So she prescribed Tula amoxicillin 2 times a day for ten days and sent us on our way claiming things should be looking up in 24-48 hours.
Well.....Thursday afternoon Tula broke out in a nasty red rash all over her body. I called the clinic again and they put me through to a triage nirse who explained this was common after a fever and should clear up in the next day or so. Friday morning, it was even worse. Her fever was completely gone but she just wasn't herself and I am sure it was from the meds. She took her medicine Friday morning and it was supposed to be given with food. I gave it to her before breakfast assuming she would take it and then eat as per usual (my bad). Well she took her medicine and then wouldn't eat a bite and wanted to go right back to bed. She wouldn't even nurse. I put her down and she slept for two hours before I went in to check on her. She was laying in her crib on her belly, head turned to the side but eyes wide open. Like she couldn't lift her head or something. I picked her up and went to carry her down the hall and the poor girl did one giant heave and threw up, like projectile vomit, all over. She didn't cry or anything but it scared me. She had never even spit up, I kid you not, before this disaster.
I made another Doctor appt for that afternoon. I ended up seeing a fabulous young guy (he could not have been 30) who seemed to really agree with how I was "doing things" with Tula. He seemed cool with the fact that I don't do well baby checkups or vaccinate. But what I loved the most about him was he looked in her ears and said,"This baby is fine and does not need to be on antibiotics, I would take her off immediately." How refreshing to hear that from a Doctor in a country where they are so quick to diagnose, prescribe and medicate! Of course he couldn't really say that she didn't have an ear infection and the NP was wrong, he had to beat around the bush a little but I was so happy at the news I didn't care. He did go in her ear and fish out a bunch of ear wax with a little blue crochet hook thingie, he thought maybe that's what she had seen or what was bugging Tula as well. There was a lot in there! The next morning her rash was gone and she was back to her old self. Maybe a little suckier since she had been so spoiled the last couple days. But otherwise, back to my perfectly healthy girl. And 3 days later, just like I had originally thought, those teeth popped through and provide a world of relief for all of us.
I am thankful we went through all of that for a few reasons. I am so glad o have found that Doctor. I really liked him and I think he liked me and my parenting style. he seemed supportive of the decisions John and I have made so far. So I am glad I finally have a pediatrician, though I think he knows he won't be seeing much of me or Tula. But I am also glad I had this opportunity to learn to have a little more faith in myself. I hate being in those situations where you walk away and go "I knew it all along." and I did. But it was a good reminder for me that a "Mother knows best" and that reassurance needs to come from a confidence and faith within that no man or woman, doctor or not, can give you.
And the most fun part. We have teeth! John and I were trying to get a couple pictures in the bathtub tonight but it's next to impossible. First of all, I think the area is still pretty tender and she doesn't seem happy with us poking around in there. Secondly, they are still so short, thin and just small that even if I had the right angle and lighting I am not sure that they would show up. For those of you anxiously awaiting pictures of the first tooth, know that I am as well and I will share some as soon as I have good one worth sharing!
Tula turned 7 months old this week but I am tired for the night and off to bed. I will post her 7 month update sometime this week. Hope you all enjoy the photos and new photo gallery!